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Change is inevitable!

How people change with time according to their convenience!? Ever had thought on this? I'm pretty sure many of you would have this question. It hurts when people leave you without any reason. Where did i go wrong? What's my fault? How can someone let you go so easily who promised you once to hold you forever. You are left with three options.  • Trying hard and getting them back - If you want to try hard to get them back you can just try and try. Nothing else is there in your hand. Be crystal clear while keeping your points and views. Ask them what made them do so? Why they want to leave you? If they agree to whatever you speak and keep their views and if the discussion goes synonymous then you are in plus.  •  Trying hard but still loosing - Even if you try hard for making the things go right , but then you end up having more complications. It's better to loose. At least you tried and that will give you the satisfaction. Cause somethings won't change even if yo

Diwali

Diwali festival! The most awaited one from the year.✨ It's not just about wearing new cloths and having chill but it's also about spreading love and happiness. The festival we love to celebrate with our family and friends. We celebrate DIYAwali Diwali! Here, there, everywhere. DIYA shows ray of hope. It proves the sun and moon cycle. After every dark night, the bright sun will rise. So never lose hope. Akhir ," ummid pe duniya kayam hai " Diwali is something about togetherness. It's about doing every little thing starting from cleaning up to the light decorations togetherly. Diwali is a symbol of celebration. Rangoli is the sign of a happy home inviting you to join their happiness, isn't it? light up other people's life! Be a part of their joy and enjoy each and every moment of it. Take off sometime from your busy schedules and spend it with your family at least for this festival and you will be amazed to see the unconditional love you will

THE UNSPOKEN HARMONY

One fine evening of summer , to get out of sweat , I bumped out. Went long and long. The cold breeze was bit touchy. I felt like I was flying high in the sky.  It felt quite refreshing getting out of the coziness. On my way , I saw one narrow route going somewhere long . Being more curious , I went there on that path. Nobody was there except a couple of bird chirping out. The sun was setting down right at that time. The morning pinky sunrise was setting into peachy sunset. Aaaha , the merging of different colours got me thinking about the nature more. I was observing the surrounding more keenly .The beauty from a single leaf on the ground to shiny star in the sky. Then my eyes spotted a nest of those lovebirds . I saw them trying hard to keep their little one protected from all the odds. They were the living example of parenting. How much care one parent can do for their own blood ?  At that point , I was badly missing my parents. They did everything for me without expecting in re

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Here , "  F. R. I. E. N. D. S.  "  is not about a TV serial but it's something about the trustworthy true friendship.                  FRIENDS  are the ultimate booster pack. Without them our life wouldn't be the same . Don't you think ?  We all human beings need friends . We people want someone to share with , to talk with , to study with , to play with , to explore wih ,  to laugh with , to rock the floor with , to motivate us , appreciate us and what not ...... At the same time , no friends is 10000 times better than fake friends !!!!                   Let's talk about different categories of friendship ! 1) TOXIC FRIENDS  - These are the one who spoils the surrounding environment just by being there. They spreads the  rays of negativity . Their company makes us feel introvert. They themselves never want to improve and they just don't let us grow. They do things unreasonably .  They are overpowering ones. They just use us and throw back when they

SORTED DECISIONS , SORTED LIFE !

              Have you ever imagined , how wonderful your life would be if you can be stick to your own decisions and be firm on them ?  Trust me , you will be proud of yourself if you can do that .                                                  Whenever it comes to a decision , what we usually start doing is wasting our precious time to think , THIS is right or THAT is right ?    What if I hurt someone with my decision ? What about different people ?  What they will think of me ?   Whether to go in RIGHT direction or LEFT ?  and blah blah blah .....                                The phycology behind that - As soon as meet-up such situations , we start giving conflict instructions to our subconscious mind . Wrong input we give . Our subconscious mind contributes 3/4th to the entire memory storage of brain .  When the rays of wrong and conflict instructions comes to our subconscious mind , each an every decision we take splits up .  In short mind diverts and splits up and starts

What people will say ??

Aaah ! It's the basic question right ? " Log kya kahenge ? " Bhai , logo ka toh kaam hi hai kehna . It's you who will be deciding what they say is reliable or not ? Is that actually needed to you or not ? Is their opinion really matters to you or you just can ignore it ? There is no need you to worry for such questions . Start answering from your inner soul . Most important message from this write-up is - " Say goodbye to your fear ! " For that you must go with your heart . You must listen to what your mind says n not what many mouths speak. You and your peaceful soul will surely know what is right for you and what you are worth for. Your abilities and capabilities are just known to you and not to those tongue - in - cheek people . If your basics are clear then no worries . So without blaming people why not focusing on our goals and priorities ? No doubt , we will think twice before doing anything , " agar maine aise kiya toh vo kya bolen

Life Without Sadness

The height of personal happiness can only be measured by the depth of personal sadness . Happiness is not a stand alone feeling . There is no meaning to happiness , without knowing what sadness is ! You know what , people build invisible walls to protect themselves from emotional pain . Greater the height of walls , greater the degree of pain , More the person has experienced in the past . Not all person who experience pain build this wall around themselves , Only the people who are feard of  getting hurt again build the wall . People who live behind their emotional walls , disconnect themselves from the rest of the world and get isolated . Unfortunately , they play victims for the rest of their lives and forfeit any hope of intense happiness . Have you ever imagined what ,   " Life Without Sadness ! " could be ? isn't it amazing thought ? Don't you think ? But ,  trust me only you can prove that imagination very right in your real life too . All that yo

SO WHAT I AM SHORT ?

Yes , I am Short .   No , I am not intimidated by you   because you are taller !!!  My mother always keeps telling me - So what if you are short ??  Make your qualities n qualifications soo strong that your height , weight ..... shouldn't even touch your feet !  INDEED . I personally don't believe it matters ! I doesn't n it shouldn't . If anyone wants you - they will accept you as u are and that too very happily . All this is just external attraction .  What should really matter to a person must be one's HEART . What if I m on a wheelchair ? ? what will matter at that time ? Size ? weight ? Skin colour ? Height ? LoL !! Ans is You and Your heart . Think over it ..  " You can always hem long pants , but you can't make too short pants longer ". - Short girl replied . I think every girl needs to love herself regardless of anything .  Like if you're​ having a bad day , if you don't like your hairstyle , if nobody cares for you