What people will say ??

Aaah ! It's the basic question right ?
" Log kya kahenge ? "
Bhai , logo ka toh kaam hi hai kehna .
It's you who will be deciding what they say is reliable or not ?
Is that actually needed to you or not ?
Is their opinion really matters to you or you just can ignore it ?
There is no need you to worry for such questions . Start answering from your inner soul .
Most important message from this write-up is - " Say goodbye to your fear ! "

For that you must go with your heart .
You must listen to what your mind says n not what many mouths speak.
You and your peaceful soul will surely know what is right for you and what you are worth for.
Your abilities and capabilities are just known to you and not to those tongue - in - cheek people .
If your basics are clear then no worries .
So without blaming people why not focusing on our goals and priorities ?
No doubt , we will think twice before doing anything , " agar maine aise kiya toh vo kya bolenge ? , Unko kaise lagega ? Vo kaise react karenge ? blah blah blah...  "
Let them speak what they wants to . Let them judge you for no reason .
Let them misunderstood even if you are right at your place ! Don't bother anyone's saying unless and until you know you are going out of the track .

See , after attending a grand colourful marriage , after fishing all the delicious plates served over there , after a short refreshing break with immense care and love from our closed ones , Few people will gossip about bad things -
" Nahh , itni bhi acchi nai hue yar shadi . Kuch toh kami thi . Khana ? thik thak hi tha , utna majedar bhi nai tha . "
And the few -
" Bohot badiya hue shadi . Khana ? A1 tha . Sabse milna hua . Kafi dino baad sabse baatchit hue . "
See , here's you can make out the difference between two opposite kinda people . One who will appreciate anything and everything and one who will always be blaming , keep talking bad then no matters how good you do .
It's just a small example of various tongue  speaking out .

I have seen that people will forget what you said , people will forget what you did , but people will never forget how you made them feel .

" Log kya sochnge agar me ye sochungi toh log kya sochnge ? " We need to think about it .
At the same time there are some good advicers too. Few well-wishers will always talk in good faith of ours ,  just we need to find such gems.
Afterall ,
People can say whatever they want about me ,
But , at the end of the day I am still going to be me and I am going to be living my good damn life for sure .
Stay kind , committed to love and free in your authenticity  !
Don't you dare doubt your worth and the beauty of your truth !
Keep on shining like you do 😎

#livelovelaugh

- Uma Marda

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