F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Here , "  F. R. I. E. N. D. S.  "  is not about a TV serial but it's something about the trustworthy true friendship.

                 FRIENDS  are the ultimate booster pack. Without them our life wouldn't be the same . Don't you think ?  We all human beings need friends . We people want someone to share with , to talk with , to study with , to play with , to explore wih ,  to laugh with , to rock the floor with , to motivate us , appreciate us and what not ......
At the same time , no friends is 10000 times better than fake friends !!!!
                  Let's talk about different categories of friendship !

1) TOXIC FRIENDS  -
These are the one who spoils the surrounding environment just by being there. They spreads the  rays of negativity. Their company makes us feel introvert. They themselves never want to improve and they just don't let us grow. They do things unreasonably.  They are overpowering ones. They just use us and throw back when they are fulfilled. Misunderstandings are the toppings for them. They are always interested in quarrels. Never want to speak openly and clearly. They are soo selfish that they don't give a damn to their close ones too.  Red signal. Must and must stay away from such bitchaaaas. Be aware of them and secure your life. They can screw your entire life for no reason.

  2) HUNGER GIVING FRIENDS -
They always share their knowledge and experiences. They have sooo many good and appreciable qualities. We feel jealous about them.
They are richest by heart.
They have a peaceful soul. We can learn life teaching lessons from them. We look upto them as our role models. We feel fresh when  we are with them. Such friends really plays an important role in our life as they make us compare ourself and see where are you now ??? One should must have atleast one hunger giving friend. Go to them , share with them and grab their knowledge and use it well.

3) ACTIVITY FRIENDS -
These are the one who are always on their toes for adventures. Who are ready to explore. Who enjoys the company of nature. Few of them always keep busy themselves with some work. Some are involved in social activities. Some with their professional life. Few with household chores. They just don't waste time. They utilise second to second to do something productive. Find some activity friends from your group and do something more productive than just wasting ATP's. I am freaky happy , I have many activity friends.

4) PILLAR FRIENDS -
This is a true sense of friendship. These are those friends who stand for you anytime and everytime. They are just like coconut cover to us. They themselves will stand against all the odds and  will  protect the inner white , soft coconut part.
They will never ever take the credit of anything. Instead they will appreciate you for doing something excellent though you have had done with their help only.
They are the family we choose for ourselves. We can literally be free to say ' Mujhe potty aa rahi h '
They know us throughly. They can rightly predict our mood. They know how to tackle our mood swings. We badly need such friends to pull of life.
More the pillar friends , happier the life !
Lucky me.
 
5) PAMPERING FRIENDS -
They will always pamper you. They will take you to your favorite places. They will offer you your favourite food. They are richer with heart and money. They want you to be happy so they try to fulfill your wishes and demands. Sometimes they will do for your happiness , sometimes they will do it for their own good. There will be times when they will serve you selflessly and sometime they will do expecting something back in return. We must be able to differentiate between such selfish and selfless people !
        
6) AVAILABLE  FRIENDS -
These are not our friends in true sense. Just for the available time and place we become friends with them. Just because if we are together for some time , we call them available friends. No wrong intension at all. We can utilise their company and do something productive instead of wasting our time. We can have lots of fun and unforgettable memories with such friends. So without regretting we must enjoy the company of available person. New bonds may form through this.

7) DEMANDING FRIENDS -
They are the selfish friends. They wants love , attention, care and concern all the time. They seek for respect. These are sympathy gaining people. They are greedy. They just don't care for the other person , they just want people to listen to them and follow them for no reason. They are poorer at emotions. We can say they are emotionless. Such behaviour make them call rude.They are always ordering and demanding. They asks people to do something for their self without thinking if that front person. Might it hurt that person, might that person go to the hell , they just don't care for them.

              Choose your friends wisely. One more thing , think what you should give it back to each of them. Treat them accordingly. I wish to play the following roles in the following situations.Like I would like to make more and more hunger giving friends. I want to be a pillar for my pillar friends. I want to remove out toxic people from  my life. Want to be aware of their manipulations. Want to enjoy and do something productive with my available friends. Want to be wise enough to deal with demanding friends. 
Mind well , when there's jealously in between , no longer friendship will exist. Few times in friendship , you might give 100 % , but may not get return the same , that doesn't mean you lose hope in friendship , because none of our five fingers are same ! It's a life and many people will come and many will leave at a point . It's you who will decide whom to let go and to whom hold firmly. Few will talk about the fake groups , let the time and your nature handle your friendship.
Let's explore this beautiful relationship of friendship all together.

~ Uma Marda