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I am that kind of a person who's reply is 'No' to a 'No' always and always.  That may be a 'No' from my parents for a party. May be a 'No' for a trip from my dearest friend.  'No' from someone when I want something badly.  May be 'No' from my beloved one. 'No' for many things. That two letter word makes me think two thousand times, of the logic and the reasoning behind that small yet distasteful word.  That one word which always keeps testing my patience.  But then, I think -  What would be my life without 'No' ?   If I get anything and everything (Yes) everytime, I'll forget to struggle.  Life teaches me so many things with that 'No'.  I'm learning to survive with that 'No' with a big big 'Yes'. ~ Uma

To all the overprotective parents out there,  Okay. I know how much you care about your genes. I can understand your concern for your loving children and I totally trust your unconditional love for them. I also know, it hurts you guys more when you realise it that your kids has grown up and they have their own life to live and struggles too! So you start getting worried about their future and start being overprotective all the time. I totally agree that being a parent it's your job to look after them, to teach them, to punish them. But, just let me know, How long are you guys going to be there with them? How long you can teach them, scold them? I think, once when you're sure that your child can differentiate between good and bad , there's no need of you guys to worry for them.  My dear parents, you also might have gone wrong someday and when you realised it, you've become more stronger. In short you've learned. Then let your child also suffer. Let them do mistakes.

Kash hum khwabon me milte, hakikat me nahi. khwabo ki duniya is hakikat ki duniya se bhale hi bohot dur kyu na ho, par khwabon me dil tutne par itna dard nahi hota jitna hakikat ki duniya me.  Hamari mulakat bas jadui duniya me hi hoti, kyu ki kise pata tha hum aise bichdenge ki kabhi rubaru bhi nahi ho payenge.  Khwab bhale hi sach na ho, par un khwabon ko soch kar hi sahi, hum muskura toh dete hai kya fayda aise hakikat ka jo bas dard de.  Khwabon me, me uda karti thi, nachti thi par hakikat se anjan thi, samjha hi nahi ki mere toh pair hi nahi hai. kya udna aur kya nachna.  Bhale hi khwab kabhi sach na ho, par vo sukun hakikat k panne me kaha jo mujhe jhute hi sahi par mere khwab dete the.  Ab jo hakikat me hua, use kadua khwab manna padega, us sach ko nigalna bhi padega  par fir lagta h,  Kash hum khwabon me milte, hakikat me nahi ~ Uma Laxmikant Marda. 

मुलाला बापाची चप्पल आली या पेक्षा मुलगी बापावर गेली हे ऐकल्यावर सहर्षित होणारा तो माझा बाप. माझ्या जन्मानंतर पेढे वाटणारा तो माझा बाप. हाताचे बोट धरून चालायला शिकवणारा तो माझा बाप. आजारीपोटी माझ्या उशाशी बसणारा तो माझा बाप. मला स्वतःच्या पायांवर उभा करणारा तो माझा बाप.  अडचणीतून मार्ग काढायला शिकवणारा तो माझा बाप. वाईट वाटल्यावर खूप ओरडणारा, वेळेप्रसंगी माझ कौतुक करणारा तो माझा बाप. स्वतःच्या आकांक्षा बाजूला ठेवून मुलांसाठी झटणारा, तो माझा बाप. काळजावर दगड ठेवून आपल्या मुलीला सासरी पाठवणार तो फक्त बाप. आणि मुलीची सासरी ओळख बनवणारा तो फक्त बाप. अपरिमित कष्ट करणारं शरीर आणि काळजी करणारं मन, तो माझा बाप. - उमा मर्दा.

Value of a person : Priceless forever or temporarily till time being? What was that Which is gone now. Like, love, attraction or a game? I loved his work, liked him completely Was attracted to his life. But, it wasn't a game for me, Then what was that? Which is gone now. I loved his appreciation for me, liked his fractional company and Was attracted to his voice. But it wasn't a game for me, Then what what that? Which is gone now. I loved the way he look at his life, his high goals and aims,liked his dedication towards his work and Was attracted to him completely. But, it wasn't a game for me. Then what was that? Which is gone now. I loved someone calling me a sweetheart, liked our temporary bond and Was attracted to that pure soul. But it wasn't a game for me. Then what was that? Which is gone now. I loved his ignorance too, liked his ignorance Was attracted to the whole process where I was the only sufferer throughout. But it wasn't a

People always say, ' Why always me? ' Ask yourself, ' Why not you? '  Many are suffering through the same, you just know your side. So, remember you're not the only one. I used to think, people share their stuff only with me, never knew, I'm the last one in the queue. So, remember, you're not the only one. Many go through heartbreaks, rejections and I feel, I'm the only one going through the tough phase, You just see your tears, So remember, you're not the only one. Everyone has to face ups and downs, Everyone have their own challenges, I feel I'm the only one, who is hopless, But, remember, you're not the only one. Things will change, time will change, There's no point in thinking I'm the only one, Cause, people will change and their priorities too. So, remember you're not the only one. Many shares their experience, while many avoid to speak about it, That doesn't mean, you're the only sufferer,

In any damn situation - You have only 3 options 1 ) Backout - Backing out and not doing anything means you have already accepted your defeat. 2 ) Accept it - Accepting whatever is going on and not taking step against it shows your helplessness. 3 ) Be assertive - Being assertive and clearing your side, keeping your points ahed can bring some kind of change. Even if it won't change, you won't have any regrets for not trying it.      

WE DON'T HAVE TO SIT AND WAIT FOR SOME SOUL MATE TO COME TO US. OFTEN PEOPLE ASK, " WHEN WILL I MEET MY SOUL MATE ? " I'LL TELL YOU, YOU CAN NEVER MEET YOUR SOUL MATE UNLESS YOU FIRST MEET YOUR OWN SOUL. IF YOU HAVEN'T MET YOUR OWN SOUL , HOW WILL YOU KNOW YOUR SOUL MATE?

You I'll go through the days where you will think you have everything under your control. And you'll go through the days you will have no idea what you're doing. Don't let one bad day let you down. You never know about tomorrow. Selfdoubt is toxic and doesn't get you anywhere. It does nothing but hinder your progress.

It's ok to appreciate someone if you really like something  good about them. It's ok to say no to someone if your heart says. It's ok to not go and hangout with your friends if you really don't want to. It's ok to spend some time with your grandparents and listen to their interesting experience. It's ok to make a cup of tea for your father once in a while. It's ok if you by chance forget to click photo before eating. It's ok to wear a saree someday than a ribbed jeans if your mother say so. It's ok not to talk to anyone for one day and give time to self. It's ok even if your plan flops. maybe something best is waiting for you. It's ok to remove negative people and energy from your life if it's damaging you. It's ok to love someone harder if it really matters to you. It's ok to forgive someone even if you can't. It's ok to not go according to your plan always Try to trust the unexpected journey too. It's

Did you say it, " I love you. " " I don't want to live without you. " " You changed my life. " Did you say it? Make a plan and set a goal. Work towards it but every now and then look around ; drink it in because " This is it. " It might be gone tomorrow. - @little_things_1998

Growth Always lies out of comfort zone. growth should be unbounded. growing is going up to the next level by all the means. Moving on is going ahead leaving shit aside , but growing is learning from the same shit and not repeating the same again. once to grow , nobody can pull you back. Facing challenges , the one who keeps trying hard no matter what , is the one who shows desire to grow. outgrowing people is fine , but you can't expect to grow at the same rates as others. We are all in our own paths. So don't feel guilty to move on. Grow and Glow!! - Uma Marda.

Everyone has as ego and it's not always a bad thing. However if we don't learn to tame it and prevent it from getting the best of us, we will continuously make decision that feed it, rather than our soul. This is quickest way to avoid real happiness. Our ego seeks pleasure in the wrong places. One way it does this by validating your exintence through attention and instant gratification. The reason some people announce their next move is purely for ego boost. They want others to acknowledge their progress or make them feel jealous. Those who resist growth may deny this, but some of us may only share posts online to impress others. Sadly this happiness never lasts because it only stroks the hairs on your ego. It starves the soul and as a result you'll always feel unfulfilled. Your inner growth is all about getting to a stage where you don't need approval from anyone else. It's about being happy with who you are, as you are. Share what you like with who you like, b