FLAWED YET PURE.

 So, one of my dearest sister questioned me, 
" Hey, how do you deal with your flaws and comments on your physical appearance ? " 
" Do they hurt you ? " 
This question made me think about my imperfections, weakness and my reactions
to the same. 
Obviously it hurts me. 
I am a human being right? 
And sometimes such rude comments can take someone to their lowest. 
I told her, " I answer them with a big smile and let it go though my other ear "  
Now when you can't change something, you've to accept things as they are. 
Acceptance is the greatest virtue these days! 
People will enjoy teasing and passing comments on your inscrutable countenance. 
Temporary beauty isn't in your control right? 
Noone is perfect and that's totally fine.
Everyone have their own insecurities, inadequacies.
Someone you'll find limb less, someone with blemishes, some short stature one ,
and someone with black tone, rotund and flabby may be!? 
Nobody really wishes for these shortcomings. Do they? 
These may or may not change with the time and age. 
No matter what impurity your physique shows, someone with great heart will accept you for
' the purity of your soul and mind. ' 
This means , to stop thinking about something you are not supposed to think and change. 
Also, purity of your heart means going ahead with your morals, ethics , values and leaving back all the impurities.  
Trust your inner beauty. 
Let it enhance your character.
It comes from the kind of person you are , the choices you make and how you treat other people. 
The one who wins always, is the one who starts living their life wearing a smile and accepting their flaws.
Arguments will never resolve the issues. 
Trust me if you love yourself enough, with your smile you'll be able to deal with those harsh comments too. 
So rather than being gloomy, let's be more confident and positive while facing such situations. 
Afterall , everyone has to tolerate little bit of each other's quirks.
And we can surely do that for our loved ones right? 


- Uma Marda. 

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