Life Without Sadness

The height of personal happiness can only be measured by the depth of personal sadness .
Happiness is not a stand alone feeling .
There is no meaning to happiness , without knowing what sadness is !
You know what , people build invisible walls to protect themselves from emotional pain .
Greater the height of walls , greater the degree of pain , More the person has experienced in the past .
Not all person who experience pain build this wall around themselves ,
Only the people who are feard of  getting hurt again build the wall . People who live behind their emotional walls , disconnect themselves from the rest of the world and get isolated .

Unfortunately , they play victims for the rest of their lives and forfeit any hope of intense happiness . Have you ever imagined what ,
  " Life Without Sadness ! " could be ? isn't it amazing thought ? Don't you think ?

But ,  trust me only you can prove that
imagination very right in your real life too .
All that you will need is a strong  desire to bring it on .

The very first rule is ,
Try not to expect anything from anyone . It is the key reason behind depression n sadness .  Always be happy with whom you are and with what you have .
Know that time and destiny has already planned solutions for you .
Just be patient . Time have it's own solutions .
Assuredly as the sun rises and sets in the  , pain will always be a part and parcel of life .

Sun can heal / hurt depending upon the intensity and exposure of rays . People protect themselves from damaging effects of sun with sun screen . Likewise , attitude serves as the slave that protect people from damaging effect of emotional pain .

Pain can be a gift / curse depending on the attitude of the person experiencing pain .
Achieving the heights of happiness is far satisfying than little emotional wall .
Emotional trauma , like sun eventually sets and gives way to the hope of happiness .

So , never lose hope . Wake up every morning with a positive and bright thought . 
Afterall , day and night the cycle will go on repeating .  Our attitude towards the life will decide the happiness / sadness .
So what have you decided to choose ?

- Uma Marda 

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